WIFE, TONI JONES
I remember when I was getting married years ago, no one could tell me anything because I knew I was walking down that aisle and I married my church sweet heart. I was so full of faith and innocence. I listened to no one who told me not to get married and resented any pseudo wisdom people were giving me. But years into the marriage, after the separations and then the divorce, I was trying my best to recognize who I was because that experience almost took me out.
The awareness I received years later almost made me crazy because I realized how ignorant I was, not because I got married, but because I married the wrong person. We gain lessons and purpose from all decisions but I’m telling you it’s the worst self realization to realize everyone was right and you were wrong about getting married. Even if you feel so sure about getting married because of A B C…I promise you if you spend time and listen to your gut and how it feels you’ll hear the truth of what you should do.
If I was to be honest, even in my stubbornness I always knew it wasn’t the right person nor the right time, I was just in denial. I was too young and didn’t even know what being single was by Gods design. Let my decision be your wisdom to listen within.
It Took a divorce for me to become a real wife!